wedding plan?
October 7, 2009 by admin
Filed under Romantic Wedding Planning
erick461_2005 asked:
my friend recently told me that he was getting married with his girlfriend and i support them they love/like eachother every much, the thing is that they are planning to get married secretly thru cityhall.(marrying thru the city) without their parents finding out they been together for 2years and 1/2. what they are doing i know is not right but they both have choosen to do it. they told me that they were going to do that and after his girlfriend finishes college she is goin to be a sophmore in the fall you think that will be able to keep it from their parents? is it wrong
they love each other they been goin out for 2 years and 1/2 and kown each other for 5 years!
they are both 19
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my friend recently told me that he was getting married with his girlfriend and i support them they love/like eachother every much, the thing is that they are planning to get married secretly thru cityhall.(marrying thru the city) without their parents finding out they been together for 2years and 1/2. what they are doing i know is not right but they both have choosen to do it. they told me that they were going to do that and after his girlfriend finishes college she is goin to be a sophmore in the fall you think that will be able to keep it from their parents? is it wrong
they love each other they been goin out for 2 years and 1/2 and kown each other for 5 years!
they are both 19
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They are both consenting adults. It’s their bussiness, stay out of it.
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they are both adults
if their parents find out
they find out
they can’t ground themm
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Do you know the whole situation though? Is there a set of parents that are completely overbearing and/or would forbid the marriage? I am in a similar situation although it is in the earlier stages of it right now… I just got engaged after dating my bf for 4 1/2 years. My parents don’t like him because he’s not “of our social class”… my parents are snobs. But for us, I would give anything to be with him, even my parents’ trust. Honestly, I don’t think they could keep it from their parents because if the parents suggest they get married later on, the truth would have to come out eventually, and then the parents would be REALLY mad that they couldn’t be a part of their child’s big day. For me, I’m practically estranged from my parents for reasons of abuse but I get along very well with my future in-laws so that’s okay for me, but it’s a big moment in a parents’ life to see their son or daughter get married. If you’re on good terms, why not let your parents know?
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I don’t understand the point of them getting married if they’re not going to be sharing a household or letting the world know they are an official couple. I guess some people don’t believe in having sex before marriage, but I thought that originated because in the event that the couple got pregnant, they would need a stable household and supportive community in which to raise the child. It kind of defeats the point if you just sign a piece of paper at city hall, go back to your own individual lives, and basically act like just another dating couple. I guess there’s no much you can do about them; they are adults and they can make their own mistakes, although that doesn’t mean you have to be supportive of it. At least you probably won’t have to deal with this problem for very long: statistically speaking, people who get married so young generally don’t stay together very long…especially considering the apparent maturity level of these people.
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Be happy for your friend. If they choose not to tell there parents that’s there business. It appears as though you mean a lot to them and that’s why there sharing this with you. I would support them.